sextasy runs regular 'play'shops in London

Supports participants considering or newly exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM) or polyamory, building confidence and clarity.
 

Description: This playshop guides those curious about or early in ENM/polyamory, addressing fears, boundaries, and communication strategies for opening relationships.
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will leave with a clearer understanding of non-monogamy, tools to communicate boundaries effectively, and increased confidence to explore ENM or polyamory safely.
 

Who will benefit most: Individuals or couples considering or new to ENM/polyamory.

 

Provides tools for building and maintaining ethical non-monogamous relationships, focusing on trust and boundaries.
 

Description: This playshop supports refining polyamory, tackling jealousy, time management, and emotional safety, with discussions on sexual boundaries.
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will acquire strategies to manage jealousy, enhance trust, and create sustainable non-monogamous relationships, fostering emotional security and connection.

Who will benefit most: Polycules, couples in non-monogamy, and curious individuals.

 

Teaches strategies for managing relationship conflicts while maintaining respect and connection.

Description: This playshop addresses conflicts like mismatched sexual needs, offering tools for de-escalation and rebuilding intimacy.

Expected Benefits: Participants will learn effective conflict resolution techniques, strengthen their ability to repair relationships, and deepen emotional intimacy through empathetic communication.
 

Who will benefit most: Individuals, couples, and polycules seeking healthier conflict management.

 

Helps couples or partners who work or run a business together balance romantic and professional lives, enhancing intimacy.
 

Description: This playshop addresses mixing love and work, focusing on separating business stress from personal intimacy and maintaining passion, with optional light kink elements.
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will gain practical tools to set boundaries between work and romance, strengthen their emotional and physical connection, and reignite passion in their relationship.

Who will benefit most: Couples who work together or co-run a business.

 

Empowers participants to embrace their sexual identities, building confidence in their intimate lives.
 

Description: This playshop guides sexual self-discovery, helping identify turn-ons, boundaries, and fantasies, with optional light kink exploration (e.g., role-play fantasies). 

Expected Benefits: Participants will achieve greater self-awareness of their sexual desires, increased confidence in expressing them, and tools to explore fantasies safely.

Who will benefit most: Individuals (solo or partnered) seeking sexual confidence.

 

Empowers women to embrace their sexual confidence and desires in a women-only space.
 

Description: This playshop creates a safe space for women to explore sexual identities and connect with their bodies, with light kink-inspired practices (e.g., sensory exploration).
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will gain increased self-confidence, a deeper connection to their sexual selves, and a supportive community to normalize and celebrate their desires.
 

Who will benefit most: Women (solo or partnered) seeking increased sexual confidence.

 

 Encourages men to explore emotional and sexual vulnerability, fostering healthier intimacy in a men-only space.

Description: This playshop supports men in navigating masculinity, expressing sexual needs, and understanding boundaries, with optional light kink elements like role-play discussions.
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will develop greater emotional openness, improved communication about sexual desires, and tools to build more authentic intimate connections.
 

Who will benefit most: Men (solo or partnered) seeking emotional and sexual connection.

 

Empowers individuals with physical disabilities or additional needs to navigate sexual and romantic relationships with confidence and joy.
 

Description: This playshop creates an inclusive space to address challenges like accessibility and adapting intimacy practices, with accessible somatic techniques and optional light kink elements (e.g., sensory play).
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will gain tools to communicate needs, adapt intimacy practices, and build confidence in their sexual and romantic lives, fostering empowerment and connection.
 

Who will benefit most: Individuals (solo or partnered) with physical disabilities or additional needs affecting sexual/romantic relationships, and their partners.

Support individuals exploring gender identity and/or sexual orientation to embrace their authentic selves in relationships.
 

Description: This playshop provides a safe space to explore evolving identities, addressing self-acceptance and communication, with light kink elements (e.g., role-play fantasies).
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will gain confidence in their evolving identities, tools to communicate with partners, and a supportive space to explore their authentic selves.
 

Who will benefit most: Individuals (solo or partnered) exploring gender identity and/or sexual orientation.

 

Supports individuals coming out of a long relationship to rebuild confidence in dating and sexual exploration with new partners.
 

Description: This playshop helps participants navigate the transition to new romantic and sexual connections, addressing fears and exploring desires, with light kink-inspired elements (e.g., sensory exploration).
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will rebuild confidence, clarify their desires and boundaries, and gain practical tools to navigate dating and intimacy with new partners.
 

Who will benefit most: Individuals (solo) coming out of a long relationship and exploring dating or sex with new partners.


 

Introduces beginners to kink and BDSM, fostering safe exploration and understanding of desires and boundaries.
 

Description: This playshop offers a beginner-friendly introduction to kink and BDSM, covering consent, basic practices (e.g., sensory play, light bondage), and safety.
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will gain foundational knowledge of BDSM, confidence to explore kink safely, and tools to communicate desires and boundaries effectively.
 

Who will benefit most:  Individuals, couples, or polycules new to or curious about kink/BDSM.




 

  Learn to deepen intimacy through playful, creative approaches to sex and connection.
 

Description: This playshop uses sensual games and light role-play to build trust and joy, with optional kink-inspired elements like blindfolds.
 

Expected Benefits: Participants will discover playful ways to enhance intimacy, build trust, and create joyful, connected experiences with partners.
 

Who will benefit most: Couples and polycules looking to enhance intimacy through play.